Five Year Blogoversary Musings

It’s time again for my annual Blogoversary post. Five years have slipped past in the blink of an eye. It’s been my honor since 2015 to share this tiny corner of the interweb with some of the bestest women I’ve had the privilege of “meeting” in the Blog Lands—and in some cases, meeting in real life too!

How to lament this past year since the last Blogoversary? As far as The Endo Zone goes, it’s been my quietest year yet for publishing posts. Real Life got in the way, and more pressing matters unfortunately took my attention from posting. But in 2020 I’ve made a decision to post here more often, and I’m trying to make good with that commitment as best I can. Already in less than three months I’ve nearly reached my total posts from last year! My aim is to move this space away from strictly endometriosis and/or infertility as cause/effect; I’ve still been brainstorming names for a new blog but haven’t found one yet that speaks to me.

Much has changed since the Endo Zone was born five years ago, the most significant (and surprising) of which has been Jake and my decision to resolve Childless Not By Choice (CNBC). If you’ve been around here for even a little while, you’ll know that CNBC wasn’t a one-time choice which Jake and I made and then moved on from. Instead, resolving without a child still sometimes rears its head and causes us uncertainty. It’s definitely not a linear course. This is a space to write about that.

A heartfelt Thank You to everyone who’s been at this site since the beginning, and Welcome to all those who’ve joined since! I have slightly more than 200 followers and I’m grateful for every one of you.

Last, a giant frowny face to WordPress for needlessly revamping the editor and making it even harder to use than usual; writing this post was no easy feat with the new settings!

Links below to previous Blogoversary Musings:

Year Two: 2017 Blogoversary Musings

Year Three: 2018 Blogoversary Musings

Year Four: 2019 Blogoversary Musings

Blogger Recognition Award

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My soul sister of the bloglands, Lisa over at Bloomin’ Uterus, has nominated me for a Blogger Recognition Award.  My mission for this challenge? Tell you how The Endo Zone blog began.

It’d be pretty awesome if I had an inspiring backstory to this ‘lil blog’s conception… but, instead, it was just one of those thangs:  Marixsa felt lonely in TTC land.  Marixsa discovered fertility blogs.  Marixsa likes to write.  Marixsa started her own fertility blog.

The Endo Zone is about, well, endometriosis.  TTC.  Life.  Family.  Pets.  Loss.  Opinions.  All of the other parts that make up my life, minus my true identity.

I do have one small confession to make about this blog: I am utterly terrible at naming things.  The worst.  I often wish that I had thought of a cleverer title than The Endo Zone.  The title is a play off of “end zone,” although I’m the least enthusiastic football fan you’ll ever meet.  Hence, a blog about the endometriosis zone, whatever exactly that is.  Someday I’ll get around to renaming this space.

As for backstory, I was diagnosed with endometriosis in 2010, but I’m 100% sure it’s been there since the ’90s.  Most days I forget that I’ve a history of endo: the pain, the infertility, the mega cramps, the scary clots, the pooping pain… I don’t know any differently.   But endo is not something I embrace or call my own.   I have a history of endo; I do not claim it, want it, or believe that it will get the better of me.  My life in no way revolves around a disease that God is so much bigger than.

Starting this blog has allowed me to connect with an amazing array of women, literally from all over the world.  It’s been a privilege to meet women on here who I’m proud to call my friends.  My only regret?  I wish I’d started the blog sooner.

Here are my nominations of fellow bloggers who I find incredibly inspiring in their own ways!   Tell us why you started YOUR blog!!

My Yellow Bow

From Zero to Zygote

9 Months and Waiting

Peace. ❤